Gentleness

Posted on 10th June 2021 under The Rectory Bulletin | Fruits of the Spirit


But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. (Galatians 5:22-24)

Gentleness - or prautēs in Greek - is a word with hidden depths! Here is the definition: “the quality of not being overly impressed by a sense of one’s self-importance”. Gentleness might be seen as the opposite of arrogance. It is realising your limitations, and not taking yourself too seriously. It is allowing others to be as important as you are.

In a world which cries out “express yourself” and “assert your rights” this might be seen as somewhat counter-cultural. The world - in the end - does not revolve around you. Rather than being the centre of the universe you are simply one more being sitting on one more planet circling one more sun on the edge of one more galaxy. We live in relationship with others, and we therefore need to take our place beside others and not try and lord it over them.

To be gentle, is to be humble and considerate. It is to show courtesy and thoughtfulness. It is to resist the temptation to assert yourself in a given situation, and even to admit you are wrong. Yes, even you!

It is only when we realise that we, like all others, are flawed individuals that we can gain a true perspective on ourselves. It is as we acknowledge we get things wrong, we are ready to learn and to seek forgiveness. Gentleness is not weakness. It is simply being realistic.

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